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Choosing To Have a Relationship

O LORD my God, I cried out to You, And You healed me. Psalms 30:2 (NKJV)

I remember receiving a call a few years ago, letting me know that a close friend had been admitted into the hospital. It seems he had an initial heart attack at home early in the morning, and then a series of additional small heart attacks at the hospital.  He was in stable condition at the time, waiting for the Doctors plan to address his condition.

I couldn’t help but think back over the many times I had shared the gospel message with him — how Jesus had died on the cross of Calvary, so that he would have the opportunity to be forgiven and enabled to have a relationship with God.   Each time I had shared this message he would respectfully listen, but he would never act upon the offer to accept Jesus.  I found myself pondering the question, “How many more times would this chance be available to him?”  

I contacted the hospital and was redirected to his room, and was able to speak with Him.  We talked about the things that had transpired throughout his day, and how everything had progressed.  He told me, “Once I initially had the heart attack I was in denial.  I wouldn’t allow myself to identify with the truth of the situation.”  I thought about his statement, and it made me think about how we all can choose to see things the way we want, rather than the way they really are—we are in denial.  I thought about the countless times within my own life where I thought, “I’m okay with what I am doing, or where I am at…”

I then thought about how my friend had denied the truth of God’s amazing message of grace.  I thought about how he would deny the offer to have a relationship with Jesus, or the truth of God’s Word.  I wondered how this denial became so strong within such a strong, smart, and amazingly kind man.  Just then, the scriptures in the book of Romans jumped back into my mind. 

For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Professing to be wise, they became fools, Romans 1:18-22 (NKJV)

The answer was clear — he knew of God, but was choosing not to knowGod—he was suppressing the truth and living in denial.  He truly knew God exists by the things He created, but he chose not to worship the creator, just the creation. 


I asked my friend if I could pray for him, and he eagerly accepted.  I prayed for God’s amazing peace upon Him, and that he would be drawn to God through this.  He responded with a hardy agreement saying, “Amen,” and then thanked me.  I was able to pray again for him prior to his angiogram and stint placement procedure, and again he was very receptive to receiving prayer.  

God has given my friend a second chance for life.  He has opened the arteries so blood can flow freely and provide what is needed to live.  My prayer today is for God to open his mind and heart to receive the power to live eternally.  

I remember someone once said, “Why do people expect and believe they will spend eternity with God when they die when they never wanted to know Him while they were alive?”  It is a question to ponder for sure.  Jesus said there would come a day when He will say to the many people who never took the time to knowHim, 

“I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’ Matthew 7:23 (NKJV)

I want to encourage you today to pray for those around you.  Contemplate where they may be spending eternity.  Don’t judge anyone to condemnation, because it isn’t your right.  Simply pray for God to remove the veil surrounding their hearts and mind.  Pray for God to save them, and for Him to use you in whatever capacity He chooses.  

STUDY QUESTION: According to Matthew 7:23, what will Jesus say to those who never took the time to know Him?

PERSONAL INVENTORY: Do you know Jesus, and do you have a relationship with Him?

PRACTICAL APPLICATION:  Seek the Lord by prayerfully reading His Word.  Ask Him to speak to you as you do this.  Talk to Him about everything and get to know His heart. 

PRAYER FOR TODAY: Father, Thank You for providing a way for me to know You. Thank You for allowing Your Son to die for my sin.  Thank You for speaking to me as I read Your Word.  Help me this day as I continue to follow You.  In Jesus’ precious name, amen…


Be Blessed, Pastor Scott


Copyright ©2017 by Pastor Scott Wright.
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